It's a strange place being on the edge of a life changing adventure and stuck waiting for it to happen. I've been driving here and there and everywhere this week trying to pull my mess of a self together. It gets scarier as it gets closer. A talk with my fellow traveler today lifted my spirits and rejuvenated my faith in myself.
Sure there's doubts but they fall quickly behind the excitement.
It's getting harder to sleep. Even if you hadn't been snoring in my ear last night I probably still would have been stirring just as much.
Frank from Post Secret unsettled some dust that tends to find it's place in all the crevasses in my simple thinking brain. It was needed. I needed a reminder of how close we all are and how many struggles we have are shared by strangers all around us. There were some very brave people in that audience.
I'm gonna miss this precious time I've been spending with my mom. I hope she find joy in the things around her.
sigh...
ok i'm out of brain power. it's been quite a day. hopefully the sleep will come easier tonight.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Sunday, August 17, 2008
IIIIIIII'm Back!
At the request of a certain hot blond from socal I decided to write a long overdue post. I spruced up the page a bit too as you can see... it needed a make over. So as of tomorrow I have exactly 2, count um...2 weeks until my flight to Rome. My emotions are mixed but far from none. This whole thing has caused me many stressful situations and feelings this summer, which has partly been my reason for the recent intermission. I figure I'll fill you in on the haps in the two weeks preceding as well as my explorations during my stay...pictures included.
As of now, I'm extremely nervous for this whole thing. I have so much left to do before leaving. Things to square away and pack and such. Although my insides rarely sit still I am rather excited about this whole adventure as well.
As for now..... I'm planning on denying the amount I have to do and escaping into the never ending references to pop culture and witty remarks of the Gilmore Girls...I'm on episode 13 of season 2.
Goodnight all :)
As of now, I'm extremely nervous for this whole thing. I have so much left to do before leaving. Things to square away and pack and such. Although my insides rarely sit still I am rather excited about this whole adventure as well.
As for now..... I'm planning on denying the amount I have to do and escaping into the never ending references to pop culture and witty remarks of the Gilmore Girls...I'm on episode 13 of season 2.
Goodnight all :)
Friday, June 27, 2008
Just a thought
As my week at the beach comes to a conclusion I walked along the shore today to reflect a little. I've been feeling kinda unstable lately and I was definitely in need of this time here. 30 people I I'm related to somehow, constant food, a huge house, beach, a pool, a hot tub and some great conversation and laughs with cousin Debbie. What more to ask for.
Yesterday I was out by the ocean reading this Anne Lamott book I occasionally pick up called, Grace Eventually: Thoughts on Faith. It's full of short stories from her life experiences. The story I read the other day was all too appropriate for the week. It was about women and their bodies. She talked of how it took her until she was 40 to appreciate the body she had at 20. She talked about how as you get older you wear more to cover yourself up at the beach and rarely is it found that an older woman can walk confidently in her bikini. She recalled a woman on a beach that should be an inspiration to all. She was a larger woman who seemed unaware of that she was wearing a bikini. The confidence she exuded in her own skin made all those around her envious of that feeling.
In walking along the beach today I thought of the conversation I had with my buddy Jackie about how different our bodies were when we carelessly ran for hours in soccer games...sometimes there were up to 6 games a weekend. We talked about how we never thought of ourselves as skinny. Then after losing the muscle from no longer using them made it seem remarkable when we look back on those high school photos and we were those skinny or at least fit girls. So unlike Anne it only took us 3 years to realize what we had.
As I walked further down the beach...in my bikini might I add... I thought about how I didn't feel uncomfortable. My mom commented on how a young girl running out of the water looked me up and down. I joked that she must have realized she didn't have to be stick skinny to be happy. I walked with all the confidence I usually don't portray with my fire starting thighs, my thick legs, my flabby belly, and arms. And I thought about how no matter how many times I've casually said I would rather my body wasn't the way it is, I'm probably not going to do anything drastic enough to change it. Which ultimately, to me, means I am happy with the way I am and maybe one day I will be like that older woman strutting her stuff in the bikini.
Yesterday I was out by the ocean reading this Anne Lamott book I occasionally pick up called, Grace Eventually: Thoughts on Faith. It's full of short stories from her life experiences. The story I read the other day was all too appropriate for the week. It was about women and their bodies. She talked of how it took her until she was 40 to appreciate the body she had at 20. She talked about how as you get older you wear more to cover yourself up at the beach and rarely is it found that an older woman can walk confidently in her bikini. She recalled a woman on a beach that should be an inspiration to all. She was a larger woman who seemed unaware of that she was wearing a bikini. The confidence she exuded in her own skin made all those around her envious of that feeling.
In walking along the beach today I thought of the conversation I had with my buddy Jackie about how different our bodies were when we carelessly ran for hours in soccer games...sometimes there were up to 6 games a weekend. We talked about how we never thought of ourselves as skinny. Then after losing the muscle from no longer using them made it seem remarkable when we look back on those high school photos and we were those skinny or at least fit girls. So unlike Anne it only took us 3 years to realize what we had.
As I walked further down the beach...in my bikini might I add... I thought about how I didn't feel uncomfortable. My mom commented on how a young girl running out of the water looked me up and down. I joked that she must have realized she didn't have to be stick skinny to be happy. I walked with all the confidence I usually don't portray with my fire starting thighs, my thick legs, my flabby belly, and arms. And I thought about how no matter how many times I've casually said I would rather my body wasn't the way it is, I'm probably not going to do anything drastic enough to change it. Which ultimately, to me, means I am happy with the way I am and maybe one day I will be like that older woman strutting her stuff in the bikini.
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Here's to all of you
I'm sitting in the office. I should be getting work done like ironing clothes or maybe even setting up a shot but I can't bring myself to do it. As it gets closer to my birthday I can't help but think about how good I have it. I'm so lucky in so many ways. So instead of focusing on the fact that Trumpet just waltzed himself in here and fed me the daily ego boosting story for himself in his gridded knit I'm going to remember that although it is rough to be here sometimes there's a lot of good things going for me here.
I'm going to think about:
The humorous rides to and from work with my dad and all his peacock charm.
The boy who dances thriller when he gets a few drinks in him and slow dances looking at me like there's no one else in the room.
The laugh at yourself until you cry moments with one of my favorite photo friends and PF ranting buddy.
My mom. Who although sounding and looking like she should curl up in a ball in her bed (who struggles most being here) gets through everyday still seeming like the strongest person in the world.
My sister, who is all grown up. And though we push each other's buttons often we can still find a time to laugh about things our parents do and chat about what's going on in each other's lives.
The roomies who although we haven't been seeing all that much of each other are willing to wander over the my backyard this weekend for the festivities (oh and the food).
To all the other friends around the country who help me get through the stupid shit and remember the import things or just listen to me vent while waiting for our photos to process in the complete dark.
Let's hope the weather holds up for the bonfire Friday :)
I'm going to think about:
The humorous rides to and from work with my dad and all his peacock charm.
The boy who dances thriller when he gets a few drinks in him and slow dances looking at me like there's no one else in the room.
The laugh at yourself until you cry moments with one of my favorite photo friends and PF ranting buddy.
My mom. Who although sounding and looking like she should curl up in a ball in her bed (who struggles most being here) gets through everyday still seeming like the strongest person in the world.
My sister, who is all grown up. And though we push each other's buttons often we can still find a time to laugh about things our parents do and chat about what's going on in each other's lives.
The roomies who although we haven't been seeing all that much of each other are willing to wander over the my backyard this weekend for the festivities (oh and the food).
To all the other friends around the country who help me get through the stupid shit and remember the import things or just listen to me vent while waiting for our photos to process in the complete dark.
Let's hope the weather holds up for the bonfire Friday :)
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
A little drive through the country side
I've joined the early morning working world.
And the surprising thing is....it wasn't too painful. I say that now as I'm only an hour into my day... we'll see what happens later. My reasons for doing this were two. One: more hours=more money to spend in Rome. Two: carpooling with dad makes for an interesting morning ride though the country side in an Audi and saves money I would be spending on gas.. which means more money for Rome. But really it will be good for me. I love my sleep but it's not too painful to drag my ass out of bed in the morning like it is for some people i know (cough cough...olive pocket). At least you have made peace with your habits.
What a place to live. One minute the cars are flying by you on the highway and a quick turn to the right and the hills begin to roll and the little red school houses, farm houses and cows pop up out of no where. It's something I never thought I'd say that I like but it is true I do. It reminds me of the simple life we tend to forget about when everything is at your finger tips through globalized communication. It's those moments when I can get in touch with the simple joys of life that I am happiest. These days I spend less time on the computer, less time watching tv....and the next step is to detach my cell phone from my hip...which I'm hoping won't be too hard.
It's been fun waking up next to you. I'm sad it's almost over.
Happy Memorial Day weekend all!
And the surprising thing is....it wasn't too painful. I say that now as I'm only an hour into my day... we'll see what happens later. My reasons for doing this were two. One: more hours=more money to spend in Rome. Two: carpooling with dad makes for an interesting morning ride though the country side in an Audi and saves money I would be spending on gas.. which means more money for Rome. But really it will be good for me. I love my sleep but it's not too painful to drag my ass out of bed in the morning like it is for some people i know (cough cough...olive pocket). At least you have made peace with your habits.
What a place to live. One minute the cars are flying by you on the highway and a quick turn to the right and the hills begin to roll and the little red school houses, farm houses and cows pop up out of no where. It's something I never thought I'd say that I like but it is true I do. It reminds me of the simple life we tend to forget about when everything is at your finger tips through globalized communication. It's those moments when I can get in touch with the simple joys of life that I am happiest. These days I spend less time on the computer, less time watching tv....and the next step is to detach my cell phone from my hip...which I'm hoping won't be too hard.
It's been fun waking up next to you. I'm sad it's almost over.
Happy Memorial Day weekend all!
Friday, May 09, 2008
This is where we go our separate ways
Almost three years ago I was lucky enough to meet the three lovely girls above.
A year later Ms. Stephie was introduced to the bunch.
We've been through our fair share of drunken nights together, tears, laugher, and grown a whole lot in that time. They helped me come out of my shell. They helped me become the person I am today.
Stacey, Jen and Steph graduate tomorrow and begin there lives officially as adults. Stacey has a potential job offer working for a greeting card company that is just her style. Jen has a starting job working with delinquent boys :) Steph is moving to Boston in the fall to start another grand adventure. And good ole Tannah has another year of school to go.
I want all of you girls to know that I've had so much fun with you over these last few years. I hope we keep in touch. You've all been wonderful friends. I'm sorry if in the last few months I haven't been the best friend.
We have so many good memories to cherish. That I will remember forever. MWAH to you all.
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Sunshine :)
Tuesday was voting day! I was jazzed from the moment I woke up. The night before I had finally made my decision on who to vote for. Mom and I went to Hope Church (which I found quite appropriate) it was empty and the voting went quickly. We took a photo together before we went I'll post it later. It was a good day. For the day everything was balanced and I even sat through night class with a smile on my face most of the time. That night I came home to an empty house and flipped between CNN, the Flyers game, and American Idol (at the suggestion of my mother, it was Andrew Loyd Webber night). The Flyers won and my girl Hilary won as well :)
Later I joined a few of the roommates and their friends from work at Snuzzles, it was so fun. I'm definitely making my way there again.
I'm so happy to be in this good place right now. As the year comes to an end I can only get exciting about the summer because there are way too many fun things to look forward to.
Later I joined a few of the roommates and their friends from work at Snuzzles, it was so fun. I'm definitely making my way there again.
I'm so happy to be in this good place right now. As the year comes to an end I can only get exciting about the summer because there are way too many fun things to look forward to.
Friday, April 18, 2008
Stop and Stare
My mommy always told me for as long as I can remember that around my birthday I changed the most every year. For some reason it seems to be true. I think there is something about getting to the end of the school year and moving towards new things that makes it happen. With all the craziness that's gone on in school this year it only makes the summer seem that much brighter. Plus I feel like I have accomplished some work I'm truly proud about. I mean I'm no Ansel Adams but I'm working on that balance of concept and visual greatness that makes something truly great. Who knows if I'll ever get there.
I've been doing a lot of thinking today about past friendships and even some that have just weakened since the end of high school. It's sad how that happens. But I get excited that I have the opportunity to get a little touch into there new lives through facebook. I was looking through the photo album from one of my bestest friends from high school and I noticed the cell phone in her hand. It sparked an interesting thought. When you around people you get excited about new things they get and you know things about them that others wouldn't know. Just little thinks like the common phrase they always use...that changes as time goes and a better one comes along. So I sat there looking at this photo thinking..."I don't know her anymore." I have a feeling she's grown into the person I hoped she would grow into. She seems much more confident, comfortable with herself, and loving life. I think we were both in similar situations upon graduating. We just needed to bust out of our shells. I sure know I've done that and I believe she has too. I'm looking back on those days fondly and hoping that at some point we can catch up a bit.
After that thought lets just cherish the past, look forward to the future, but live in the moment. ;)
I've been doing a lot of thinking today about past friendships and even some that have just weakened since the end of high school. It's sad how that happens. But I get excited that I have the opportunity to get a little touch into there new lives through facebook. I was looking through the photo album from one of my bestest friends from high school and I noticed the cell phone in her hand. It sparked an interesting thought. When you around people you get excited about new things they get and you know things about them that others wouldn't know. Just little thinks like the common phrase they always use...that changes as time goes and a better one comes along. So I sat there looking at this photo thinking..."I don't know her anymore." I have a feeling she's grown into the person I hoped she would grow into. She seems much more confident, comfortable with herself, and loving life. I think we were both in similar situations upon graduating. We just needed to bust out of our shells. I sure know I've done that and I believe she has too. I'm looking back on those days fondly and hoping that at some point we can catch up a bit.
After that thought lets just cherish the past, look forward to the future, but live in the moment. ;)
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Spring
I'm starting to suck at keeping this updated but truthfully for the first time in my life pretty much every hour of my day is occupied. I mean I've had busy times but this is insane. Too much. I'm beginning to get overwhelmed. To the point even where I told my photo professor in an individual meeting today. She reacted quite well actually. I expected a kind of 'welcome to adulthood' as my father had said to me the day before but she actually got a convincing concerned look on her face and said 'well, let me know how I can help you get through the semester'. I had previously showed her my portfolio I sent to Temple. After letting her in on the good news today she jumped around a bit and got very excited for me. It was a welcome reaction.
What a week it has already been. I lost my debit card and had them cancel it and send me a new one. Which was much less painless than I thought. Although now I'm stuck doing things the old fashion way and actually making friends with my bank teller. Which truthfully wouldn't be that big of a problem if the bank hours were not as ridiculously short as they are in this quaint town. And now being the lazy people avoiding person that I am, I am forced to pay cash at the counter to buy gas instead of simple swiping a card and entering a 4 digit pin. Now I can eat a few more potato chips after burning off those extra few calories making my way to the counter inside.
With the first day of spring around the corner I can only assume that my mood will improve due specifically to the weather because the stress of school work is not slowing down anytime soon. But I hear once these years are over I will miss them. I'll take your word for it wise old owls.
Enjoy the spring showers.
What a week it has already been. I lost my debit card and had them cancel it and send me a new one. Which was much less painless than I thought. Although now I'm stuck doing things the old fashion way and actually making friends with my bank teller. Which truthfully wouldn't be that big of a problem if the bank hours were not as ridiculously short as they are in this quaint town. And now being the lazy people avoiding person that I am, I am forced to pay cash at the counter to buy gas instead of simple swiping a card and entering a 4 digit pin. Now I can eat a few more potato chips after burning off those extra few calories making my way to the counter inside.
With the first day of spring around the corner I can only assume that my mood will improve due specifically to the weather because the stress of school work is not slowing down anytime soon. But I hear once these years are over I will miss them. I'll take your word for it wise old owls.
Enjoy the spring showers.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
A Snippet from an Email from my Mom
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens,
how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents,
you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands.
You need to be able to throw something back
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
She's Only Happy in the Sun
Expectations. I should never have them and for the most part I don't. Disappointment is always just around the corner. Besides the wonderful lunch I had with my mom today, I've felt very alone and longing for some west coastness. Dunno why. So after seeing The Bucket List tonight and I first I thought I'd write one but then I realized....I already have. About a year or so ago I began writing one. It's long. Today I even added a few more and some of the one's I previously wrote should now be crossed off.
o TRAVEL
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· AS MANY EUROPEAN COUNTRIES AS POSSIBLE
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· HONG KONG/TOKYO
· AUSTRALIA
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· BRITISH
o ROAD TRIP UP THE WEST COAST-MUST SEE SAN FRANSICO
o LIVE IN
o LIVE IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY
o GO ROCK CLIMBING
o HELP BUILD A HOUSE (AGAIN)
o LIVE/WORK ON A FARM AND DUDE RANCH FOR A WEEK
o LIVE IN A CITY
o PLAY GOLF
o SWIM WITH DOLPHINS
o WALK
o GO IN A HELICOPTER
o GO SAILING
o SLAP SOMEONE REALLY HARD ACROSS THE FACE
o LEARN HOW TO DRIVE STICK
o RIDE A CAMEL AND AN ELEPHANT
o LEARN ANOTHER LANGUAGE
o DONATE BLOOD
o WATCH THE
o ADOPT A BABY/HAVE A BABY
o GET A TATTOO
o SEE A TORNADO
o GO ON A WEEK LONG TRIP TO CHRISTMAS MEADOWS DEDICATED ONLY TO FISHING AND WALK UP TO MY DAD’S
o GO IN A HOT AIR BALLOON
o GO PARASAILING
o ATTEMPT TO SNOWBOARD AND SURF
o SWIM IN A HOT SPRING
o BUY A HYBRID
o BUY A SMALL TRUCK
o GO TO WATCH THE OLYMPICS
o LEARN THE RULES OF CURLING
o FIND A JOB THAT I LOVE
o SEE THE NORTHERN LIGHTS
o TAKE SALSA DANCING LESSONS
o TAKE BALLET CLASSES
o TAKE A YOGA CLASS
o HAVE A PHOTO I’VE TAKEN IN A MAGAZINE
o LIVE ON A BOAT FOR A MONTH
o LEARN HOW TO WATER SKI
o GROW A GARDEN
o LEARN HOW TO PLAY A COMPLETE SONG ON THE PIANO
o LIVE IN A
o LEARN HOW TO MAKE CHOCOLATE SUFFLE
o HAVE MY PORTRAIT PAINTED
o BE AN EXTRA IN A FILM
o FALL DEEPLY IN LOVE—HOPELESSLY AND UNCONDITIONALLY
o SIT ON A JURY
o BUY A VERY EXPENSIVE BUT BEAUTIFUL DRESS—RED CARPET WORTHY----AND FIND SOMEWHERE TO WEAR IT TOO
o PUT TOGETHER A COOKBOOK WITH ALL MY OLD FAMILY RECIPES
o CREATE A TRAVEL GUIDE EQUIPPED WITH MUSIC LIKE THE ONE IN
o GO TO THE TOP OF THE SPACE NEEDLE(FINALLY)
o EXPERIENCE 24 HOURS OF SUNSHINE AND DARKNESS
o SING AT A KARAOKE BAR
o RIDE IN A HORSE DRAWN SLEIGH
o HAVE MY PALM READ
o LEARN TO BLOW GLASS
o SAVE A LIFE
o BE IN A TV SHOW AUDIENCE- TALK SHOW AND SITCOM
o GO CLUB HOPPING AND DANCE. DANCE. DANCE
o GO TO THE TOP OF THE
o PLAY WITH A MONKEY
o SEE THE DALI LAMA
o GROW A
o SERENADE SOMEONE
o LEARN MORE ABOUT MY FAMILY’S HISTORY
o TRAIN TO BE APART OF BIKE AND BUILD
o DO MORE CHARITABLE THINGS
o MAKE PEOPLE SMILE
o HUG PEOPLE MORE
o HATE LESS/ JUDGE LESS/ BE LESS FRUSTRATED
o OWN MY OWN BUSINESS
o ATTEND A PRESIDENTIAL RALLY
o TAKE A COOKING CLASS
o BAKE AND DECORATE AN AMAZING CAKE
o PHOTOGRAPH A WEDDING
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Another Ramble
Lazy Sunday, it's only 10 in the morning and I'm already feeling restless. Maybe it's just the excitement that today isn't the final day of the weekend or maybe it's the fact that I have a list of things to get done before I crawl in bed Monday night. Even when it seems like there's nothing to do there is always something looming in the back of my mind. Like those taxes for two states I have to do. One of which I still haven't received my W2s from. Another day, another time.
As Ellen Degeneres would tell me: Procrastinate Now, Don't Wait.
By the way. Dyed my hair darker again and I think I'm liking in. Don't worry mom it's not black.
Take it easy all.
As Ellen Degeneres would tell me: Procrastinate Now, Don't Wait.
By the way. Dyed my hair darker again and I think I'm liking in. Don't worry mom it's not black.
Take it easy all.
Saturday, February 09, 2008
Simple Joys
It's the simple joys in life that get me by.
That phone call from a happy mother in Rome.
A 5 dollar ticket to a hilariously funny liberating Vagina Monologues (Vaginal Chronicals)
A glass of wine around a candle lit table with homemade chips and salsa surrounded by my roomies.
Waffle parties.
Singing and Mario party at 2 in the morning.
Movie nights and popcorn.
Trips to Barnes and Noble.
Dollar store extravaganzas for fake flowers to put around the house and valentines day gifts.
Laughter from anywhere and everywhere.
Learning.
Printing photos in the darkroom with someone else who is so excited for the results they jump around.
Lazy weekends even when you know you should be getting other things done.
Sunshine and on occasion rain as long as you don't have to go out in it much.
Hugs from anyone but especially from boyfriends who will hold you as long as you want to be held.
Genuine smiles.
That phone call from a happy mother in Rome.
A 5 dollar ticket to a hilariously funny liberating Vagina Monologues (Vaginal Chronicals)
A glass of wine around a candle lit table with homemade chips and salsa surrounded by my roomies.
Waffle parties.
Singing and Mario party at 2 in the morning.
Movie nights and popcorn.
Trips to Barnes and Noble.
Dollar store extravaganzas for fake flowers to put around the house and valentines day gifts.
Laughter from anywhere and everywhere.
Learning.
Printing photos in the darkroom with someone else who is so excited for the results they jump around.
Lazy weekends even when you know you should be getting other things done.
Sunshine and on occasion rain as long as you don't have to go out in it much.
Hugs from anyone but especially from boyfriends who will hold you as long as you want to be held.
Genuine smiles.
Sunday, January 27, 2008
<3
My thoughts are jumbled
My speech stutters
You turn my insides out
It's the way you look at me
and smile
Nothing else seems to matter
You hold me tight
You are my every thought
My eyes awake to visions of you
each morning
Each night I dream of only you
<3
My speech stutters
You turn my insides out
It's the way you look at me
and smile
Nothing else seems to matter
You hold me tight
You are my every thought
My eyes awake to visions of you
each morning
Each night I dream of only you
<3
Sunday, January 20, 2008
So Much
First week of school under my belt and I'm feeling like I'm going to be incredibly busy this semester. I will be in the dark room or shooting all the time. The truth of the matter is that there is no better way to learn this stuff though. I guarantee there will be breakdowns but I love the fact that there are people to help get me through them. This semester, although looking busy seems to be promising as well. Steph and I are already regular gym goers, which greatly improves my mood because I have a tendency to get frustrated quite often. Yup that's right I said frustrated. It's my word and I'm not looking for a new one. Anyways all I have to remember when this semester gets frustrating is that this summer is going to be filled with too much working and nothing else and then life doesn't seem so bad. I'm lucky that I got that positive outlook, (well for the most part positive) but without it life would seem a lot longer.
I've reached this point where I'm 95% sure that after I graduate I'm packing my car and off to the west. I don't think people realize how often I feel like I'm not meant to be here forever. I love the people I'm around but I just know I could never start a life here. Before I leave there are things I want to do though. I want to spend more time in Philly since people seem so attached to it around here. I want to hike in the mountains. I want to go to the shore again since my first trip was different than most adventures there sound. I want to get into NYC more because as much as I could never live there I love to visit. I want to head up north...like all the way to Maine and see what the north east is all about. It would be cool to go to Nashville.
So many things, so little time, so little money.
Smiles.
I've reached this point where I'm 95% sure that after I graduate I'm packing my car and off to the west. I don't think people realize how often I feel like I'm not meant to be here forever. I love the people I'm around but I just know I could never start a life here. Before I leave there are things I want to do though. I want to spend more time in Philly since people seem so attached to it around here. I want to hike in the mountains. I want to go to the shore again since my first trip was different than most adventures there sound. I want to get into NYC more because as much as I could never live there I love to visit. I want to head up north...like all the way to Maine and see what the north east is all about. It would be cool to go to Nashville.
So many things, so little time, so little money.
Smiles.
Friday, December 21, 2007
California here I come
Since I leave tomorrow for the loverly west coast! I figured it was time for a blog.
I've been working 8:30-5ish all week and I'm exhausted. It's been fun though. Who could ask for a more fun person to work with. I laugh hysterically all day long. It's cool to have someone just get you. We had a department lunch today (Mexican food...or so the Pa people think) it was one big laugh fest though. Which I have to say was very surprising. It was a nice end to a hard worked week.
I can't even wait to get there. I miss the family and the warmth. The snow has not left the ground here for weeks and just when you think it's gone you get a few more flurries. Hopefully the forecast is right and that rain washes it away for everyone this weekend.
A fun week lies ahead and I'm looking forward to every minute.
Happy holidays to my few loyal readers and thanks for reading :)
PS you are always on my mind
I've been working 8:30-5ish all week and I'm exhausted. It's been fun though. Who could ask for a more fun person to work with. I laugh hysterically all day long. It's cool to have someone just get you. We had a department lunch today (Mexican food...or so the Pa people think) it was one big laugh fest though. Which I have to say was very surprising. It was a nice end to a hard worked week.
I can't even wait to get there. I miss the family and the warmth. The snow has not left the ground here for weeks and just when you think it's gone you get a few more flurries. Hopefully the forecast is right and that rain washes it away for everyone this weekend.
A fun week lies ahead and I'm looking forward to every minute.
Happy holidays to my few loyal readers and thanks for reading :)
PS you are always on my mind
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Don't Ask Don't Tell
Don't Ask Don't Tell ~ click this it's interesting
I happened to catch this segment on 60 Minutes today about the military's don't ask don't tell policy regarding gay people. It's always amazing to me to realize how judgmental and close minded some people are. Lesley Stal asked a few questions to Army Major Daniel Davis, his view is that military troops are generally conservative and allowing gays to serve openly would offend them and jeopardize battle effectiveness...
"What do you think would happen if a unit with a gay person went out into a combat situation?" Stahl asks.
"In my view, men are going to die, units are going to fail that would otherwise not fail, that would otherwise not die," Davis says.
"Didn't they say exactly the same thing about blacks?" Stahl asks.
Absurd. Since moving to Pennsylvania I've been exposed to a lot more judgmental and people stuck in their ways. I've met many people who say they aren't racist and yet talk about black people in such negative ways. At a party it's common for me to here someone drop the 'n' word. I can't imagine having such hostility toward someone. A couple people have gone as far to tell me 'well that's just how I was raised' and I've definitely heard..'well you just wouldn't understand you aren't from around here'. Which only makes me more open minded and less likely to judge someone by their skin. Although I grew up in a less diverse area than many of these people, I spent a summer working with a quite diverse group and in having lived in numerous areas I've met diverse people and that's what makes life interesting. I get that some of them say it's a certain type of african american that irks them but there's also a certain type of white person that fits into similar categories. But that's just it. You are putting someone in a category that you may have no idea if they fit in. People are diverse and that's the beauty that keeps me going in life. Differences are what make things interesting. Just the fact that we can never stop learning and growing is an intriguing aspect that gets me thinking for days.
And for that matter who would want to stop.
So for this holiday season i wish for everyone reading this to keep growing and learning and eat lots of food :)
I happened to catch this segment on 60 Minutes today about the military's don't ask don't tell policy regarding gay people. It's always amazing to me to realize how judgmental and close minded some people are. Lesley Stal asked a few questions to Army Major Daniel Davis, his view is that military troops are generally conservative and allowing gays to serve openly would offend them and jeopardize battle effectiveness...
"What do you think would happen if a unit with a gay person went out into a combat situation?" Stahl asks.
"In my view, men are going to die, units are going to fail that would otherwise not fail, that would otherwise not die," Davis says.
"Didn't they say exactly the same thing about blacks?" Stahl asks.
Absurd. Since moving to Pennsylvania I've been exposed to a lot more judgmental and people stuck in their ways. I've met many people who say they aren't racist and yet talk about black people in such negative ways. At a party it's common for me to here someone drop the 'n' word. I can't imagine having such hostility toward someone. A couple people have gone as far to tell me 'well that's just how I was raised' and I've definitely heard..'well you just wouldn't understand you aren't from around here'. Which only makes me more open minded and less likely to judge someone by their skin. Although I grew up in a less diverse area than many of these people, I spent a summer working with a quite diverse group and in having lived in numerous areas I've met diverse people and that's what makes life interesting. I get that some of them say it's a certain type of african american that irks them but there's also a certain type of white person that fits into similar categories. But that's just it. You are putting someone in a category that you may have no idea if they fit in. People are diverse and that's the beauty that keeps me going in life. Differences are what make things interesting. Just the fact that we can never stop learning and growing is an intriguing aspect that gets me thinking for days.
And for that matter who would want to stop.
So for this holiday season i wish for everyone reading this to keep growing and learning and eat lots of food :)
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Time on my Hands....
....or so I'd like to think.
Finals are over! It's a glorious feeling. Steph and I celebrated last night by cleaning the living room/kitchen area, lighting some candles, cuddling on the couch watching movies and sipping on hot chocolate. Later in the night we decided it was a good idea to turn on some Paramore and Fall Out Boy and tear apart our closets for a photo shoot. We were out of control and I loved it. The night ended with mac and cheese and a game of mario party that Denis and Tim joined in on.
Now I'm free. Well sort of. The fall sports for the yearbook are not finished....oops I gotta get on that. Christmas shopping is another thing on my list I have to make time for. And weather permitting I'm working full time this next week and I gotta admit I'm excited. A week from today I am on a plane to one of my favorite destinations and home away from home....San Diego. We are spending the holidays there with the family. I'll be staying with my sister and my two cousins in their new apartment. Too fun, I can't wait.
Today seems too daunting to get myself going. I want to clean this whole house because it's disgusting and Steph and I didn't do anything to help that. But before I get to that...Breakfast.
Happy winter break!
Finals are over! It's a glorious feeling. Steph and I celebrated last night by cleaning the living room/kitchen area, lighting some candles, cuddling on the couch watching movies and sipping on hot chocolate. Later in the night we decided it was a good idea to turn on some Paramore and Fall Out Boy and tear apart our closets for a photo shoot. We were out of control and I loved it. The night ended with mac and cheese and a game of mario party that Denis and Tim joined in on.
Now I'm free. Well sort of. The fall sports for the yearbook are not finished....oops I gotta get on that. Christmas shopping is another thing on my list I have to make time for. And weather permitting I'm working full time this next week and I gotta admit I'm excited. A week from today I am on a plane to one of my favorite destinations and home away from home....San Diego. We are spending the holidays there with the family. I'll be staying with my sister and my two cousins in their new apartment. Too fun, I can't wait.
Today seems too daunting to get myself going. I want to clean this whole house because it's disgusting and Steph and I didn't do anything to help that. But before I get to that...Breakfast.
Happy winter break!
Wednesday, December 05, 2007
Thinking
I am so aware of my mortality.
More so than I think others are and I've always been this way.
Never when I was growing up did I have that invincible complex. Around the age of 10 I would get night terrors because I couldn't let go of the fact that one day my parents are going to die. Still if I think to hard about it I freak myself out. Then the only solution is mass amounts of superficial things to distract me from this odd place I have reached.
A friend that I never got to know all that well just had his father pass away. Some of my other friends are at the viewing right now. It got me thinking about how lucky I am that I have never had to experience a viewing. I cannot even fathom how torn apart I would be by the sight of a dead body. Regardless, his family is in my thoughts right now as well as in many others.
It's weird that sometimes things like this make you realize how much you care about certain people in your life.
Peace and Love.
More so than I think others are and I've always been this way.
Never when I was growing up did I have that invincible complex. Around the age of 10 I would get night terrors because I couldn't let go of the fact that one day my parents are going to die. Still if I think to hard about it I freak myself out. Then the only solution is mass amounts of superficial things to distract me from this odd place I have reached.
A friend that I never got to know all that well just had his father pass away. Some of my other friends are at the viewing right now. It got me thinking about how lucky I am that I have never had to experience a viewing. I cannot even fathom how torn apart I would be by the sight of a dead body. Regardless, his family is in my thoughts right now as well as in many others.
It's weird that sometimes things like this make you realize how much you care about certain people in your life.
Peace and Love.
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