Learning to deal with questions that can't be answered

My dad is a leaf nazi.
You know how when parents ask you to do stuff you usually end up dreading it but in the end realize it's not so bad? Well that was the case with this....for awhile. I got some good thinking done that I probably would have suppressed until another time and it added to the exercise I'm attempting to get done this holiday season. Then after raking the entire side of the yard my dad straps on his little backpack and blows the beds down looking like a little boy ready to take off with his jet pack. So I had to further clean up the yard. Don't worry dad I'm always happy to help but I'm allowed a little complaining.
So I've been using this time for a little self discovery and sorting out thoughts. I have some friends that could never be in a relationship they didn't potentially see lasting forever. I used to think I was that way but I've come to find....I'm not. So I ask you this...is it OK to be in a relationship where both people have major doubts? Does what you could learn from each other out weigh the potential heartache and pain? My conclusion.....is that I think to damn much and what does it matter. This is now. I just want to have fun.
Justin Timberlake was on SNL last night! Too funny.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=bkKyn1Hpqs
Gotta love him.
Watching movies and eating and relaxing for the rest of the day.
LATER